Consider a paradigm you have of yourself. Is it helpful? Why?
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What will you choose to do?
You have a test on Friday.
What will you choose to do?
YOU COULD...
Do you agree with Melinda? Why?
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Choose one and write about it.
I will
What will you do now?
Example: Stop blaming other people.
When people describe me,
I would like them to use words like...
THE FUTURE
I will say
If time and money were no object, what would you do?
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What kinds of things will you do now? Example: Make choices that take me where I want to go.
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For direction, list your most important tasks for the week.
In which quadrant do you spend most of your time after school?
How will prioritizing help you lead your life?
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What would be different if you started your day with a feeling of being in control?
What kinds of things will you do now? Example: Do my homework after school.
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Which attitude do you have most of the time with your parent?
CHANGE THE SCENARIO TO SHOW A WIN-WIN ATTITUDE .
CHANGE THE SCENARIO TO SHOW A WIN-WIN ATTITUDE .
What song, story, or poem reminds you to get your sense of self-worth from inside? Write a few lines.
Think of a commitment you’ve made in the last month. Example: I said I would mow the lawn.
I made a commitment to
How does Hannah “win’’?
What kinds of things will you do now? Example: Think about others.
How would you teach the skill of listening if you were the “Listening Leader” in your school?
How would your relationship with your parent or guardian improve if you tried to see things from his or her paradigm? Why?
As a friend, do we have a responsibility to listen? What criteria could we use to judge good listening skills? Write your ideas in the FISHBONE DIAGRAM.
WHAT HAPPENED?
HOW CAN YOU USE THE INFORMATION IN “THE BRAIN AT WORK”?
HOW CAN LEARNING TO SPEAK CONFIDENTLY HELP YOU TO BE A LEADER?
What kinds of things will you do now? Example: Think about others’ paradigms too.
How can you use Habit 6: Synergize at home?
You are in a thick rainforest and have no idea where you are.
HOW WILL YOU USE YOUR STRENGTHS AND TALENTS TO LEAD?
Which learning style best describes you? ______________________ Ask two neighbors what their preferred learning styles are. Are they the same or different?
What benefit is there to including people with different learning styles in group projects?
How is Grant being a leader of his own education?
THIRD ALTERNATIVE
How does social media promote both positive and negative peer pressure?
What kinds of things will you do now? Example: Talk to new people.
What did you learn from the BAR CHART?
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How will a good education help you lead your life?
What did you learn from the LINE CHART?
How will taking care of your soul help you lead your life?
What kinds of things will you do now? Example: Go to bed earlier
Now I think leadership is really about:
I find my voice when…
Do we have an obligation to take on leadership?
What school need can we as leaders help improve?
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If it is not helpful, what can you do to change it?
For me, leadership is really about:
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HOW DOES YOUR CHOICE SHOW TAKING
RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN LEARNING?
HOW DOES YOUR CHOICE SHOW TAKING
RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN LEARNING?
You have homework in three classes.
What will you choose to do?
HOW DOES YOUR CHOICE SHOW TAKING
RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN LEARNING?
YOU COULD...
YOU COULD...
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How can you choose your own weather in this situation?
What can you do to influence your brother’s mood?
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If you do these things, what will you get?
Example: Respect.
One thing I would like to start doing is...
One thing I would like to stop doing is...
My biggest dream is...
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If you do these things, what will you get? Example: Feeling of control.
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For scheduling, plan tomorrow using the space below or a planning tool
In which quadrant do you spend most of your time Sunday night?
In which quadrant to do you spend most of your time Monday after dinner?
When friends pressure you to neglect responsibilities, what can you say?
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What can you do when you feel pressured to do things you’re unsure of?
If you do these things, what will you get? Example: Less stress.
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Which attitude do you have most of the time with your favorite teacher?
Which attitude do you have most of the time with your best friend?
If you were going to write a blog post about Habit 4 and last week, what would be the title?
Why would someone choose to read your blog post?
CHANGE THE SCENARIO TO SHOW A WIN-WIN ATTITUDE .
The relationship was affected because
If you had a leadership role to encourage Win-Win attitudes, what would you do?
If you do these things, what will you get? Example: Better relationships
Do you think social media is affecting the ability to listen? Why?
As a friend, do we have a responsibility to listen? What criteria could we use to judge good listening skills? Write your ideas in the FISHBONE DIAGRAM.
As a friend, do we have a responsibility to listen? What criteria could we use to judge good listening skills? Write your ideas in the FISHBONE DIAGRAM.
As a friend, do we have a responsibility to listen? What criteria could we use to judge good listening skills? Write your ideas in the FISHBONE DIAGRAM.
As a friend, do we have a responsibility to listen? What criteria could we use to judge good listening skills? Write your ideas in the FISHBONE DIAGRAM.
As a friend, do we have a responsibility to listen? What criteria could we use to judge good listening skills? Write your ideas in the FISHBONE DIAGRAM.
WHAT COULD YOU HAVE DONE DIFFERENTLY?
If you do these things, what will you get? Example: Less miscommunication.
Someone on your team just came down with a weird virus
Ahead there are native people speaking a different language and they look angry.
How can you use Habit 6: Synergize when dealing with peer pressure?
If you do these things, what will you get? Example: Different ideas.
Action Steps
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How will taking care of your heart help you lead your life?
If you do these things, what will you get? Example: Better mood.
Compare your scores with your scores at the beginning. Did they improve? Why?
How can we help?
I TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY CHOICES.
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I SET GOALS FOR MYSELF.
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I GET MY WORK DONE FIRST.
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I LIKE TO SEE OTHERS SUCCEED.
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I WORK WELL WITH OTHERS.
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I TAKE CARE OF MYSELF.
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MENTORING YOUNGER STUDENTS
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I am happy when good things happen to the people I’m close to.
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I have difficulty sharing success and recognition.
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I have a strong sense of self-worth; I don’t get it by comparing myself to others.
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I treat everyone with the same respect.
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I believe that if something good happens to you, there is less for me
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I believe there are enough good things for you and for me.
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I treat different people with varying degrees of respect based on their group or popularity
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When good things happen to the people I’m close to, I feel threatened
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My sense of self-worth comes from comparing myself to others.
